to this message exchange on OkCupid.
Good morning how are you doing how’s ur weekend going so far?
Bianca its ok to say good morning it won’t hurt I promise lol
Good Morning how was your holiday weekend?
See that didn’t hurt did it lol
be a couple of reasons why I did not respond 1.) I was not checking OKCupid
every two seconds to see if someone has contacted me. 2.) I was busy, or 3.)
and the absolute truth, I don’t want to talk to you. BAM! I am not attracted to
you. I don’t want to meet you. I don’t want to play Words with Friends with
you. Plain and simple. I am not going to respond to you, just because you message
me every day. That’s some stalker shit.
that no one is required to respond to your good morning sentence that, if you
used proper grammar should in fact be two sentences. And if someone doesn’t respond,
the fault is immediately place on the women and not the man’s lame ass attempt
to start a conversation.
whenever they speak? For instance, when walking down the street, some guy
yelled “Hey shorty”, in my general direction. When he did not hear a response
he said, “Why you have to be so mean? You not gonna say hi.” No I’m not because
last time I checked, my name is Bianca, not Shorty and how was I supposed to
know you were talking to me. Why do guys get so offended when their pathetic
attempts at striking up a conversation are shot down like a drone hovering over
the White House? When a women does not answer to the “hey shorty” that you
yelled across the street, it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with her, it
means that she doesn’t respond to being yelled at across the street on GP
(general principle). It’s that simple. So walk your lazy butt across the street
and introduce yourself properly. You may actually get a response.
are some tips about how to strike up a conversation:
your words – do not under any circumstances at all whistle, suck your teeth,
woot, holler, or make any other sounds in hopes of attracting attention. You
will get a response, but it will probably be a side eye or death glare
not use derogatory terms – I don’t know why I have to say it, but some people
need to be reminded. If you don’t like to be called out your name, guess what,
neither does the woman you are trying to talk to
cautious when trying to be funny. Your attempt at a cute pick up line may fall
yourself – just like you can spot a weave and butt pads a mile away, women can
see your fake attempt at being someone that you are not a mile away
truthful – don’t lie. Please for all things holy do not lie about your job,
life, hobbies, kids, anything. If you do and the truth does come out… it will
not end well for you.
Malikfromphilly? I haven’t responded. He hasn’t sent another message. Here’s
hoping he figured it out.